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As an “older woman” I find that my interests and hobbies have changed, my desire to partner with a long term someone is more discerning in attraction, and there is nothing better than humility and humor when it comes to dating and relationships. If you are searching for something with salacious drama, you might want to continue onto women who haven’t yet learned that drama needs to be left at the door.Older women have a sense of things in this world, because they have lived and failed and picked themselves up, and had their hearts broken a thousand times, and don’t take any sh*t from anyone, and know what they want and where they are going. We are a discerning population who doesn’t jump into a partnership with just anyone. We love to embrace and be wooed and evolve with another in such a way that makes the entire universe smile. Our plight consists of flawless conversation, with perhaps a smidge of audacity thrown into the mix.The funky girl you once knew turns into a complete stranger overnight.
“He’ll come up with creative date ideas that bring back romance and youth, and make you feel empowered and appreciated.”When you enter into a new relationship, it’s no secret you’re bringing former boyfriends along with you. “Men can have preconceived notions about women and relationships based on past experiences,” says Samantha Daniels, a professional matchmaker and president of Samantha's Table Matchmaking.
So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.
A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.
Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days.
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.And, unlike the 23-year-old who gets tanked and throws shade at your ex, she’s got class. I once went out with a young man from Queens who only dated older women because younger ladies, he found, couldn’t do a thing without checking in with 15 of their friends.In fact, your ex will likely friend her on FB (like my old bf’s ex-wife did). When you date a younger woman, he said, you also date all her friends, and it’s “a pain in the fucking ass.” You can’t just go out and do your own thing because she must receive approval from a larger governing body.A longer span of time before he’s reaching for the Viagra.